More On Flattery

Yesterday I wrote about the distinction between true appreciation and real compliments to people's hard work versus empty flattery. Today's post continues on that theme. In his book How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie continues his thoughts on flattery writing, "That's all flattery is – cheap praise. I once read a definition … Continue reading More On Flattery

The Difference Between Appreciation and Flattery

Flattery can be dangerous. It is nice to be flattered, but it can be distorting, can lead one to make rash decisions, and can make you overconfident and close-minded. We all want to be appreciated in our lives for what we do, but we should keep our guard up to recognize when someone is trying … Continue reading The Difference Between Appreciation and Flattery