Preparing for Challenges

In November of 2018 I wrote a post about planning for resiliency. Michael Bungay Stanier described the importance of planning for failure, looking ahead and anticipating obstacles, and thinking through the ways we could recover from a drastic blow to our plans. It is not easy, but preparing ourselves for hard times will make it … Continue reading Preparing for Challenges

Coaching is About Curiosity

One of the final paragraphs from Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit  reads, "But the real secret sauce here is building a habit of curiosity. The change of behavior that's going to serve you most powerfully is simply this: a little less advice, a little more curiosity. Find your own questions, find your own voice. … Continue reading Coaching is About Curiosity

Advice Doesn’t Help Us Generate Knowledge

As you would expect, Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit is all about how to be a more effective coach. Part of becoming a more effective coach involves understanding how the brain works so that you can understand how the people you coach are going to learn and react in certain situations. To help demonstrate … Continue reading Advice Doesn’t Help Us Generate Knowledge

Curiosity and Asking Questions

I keep coming across people who encourage curiosity. The message is that if you want to do meaningful work, to end up in an interesting place, and to have an impact on the world, you should always be curious. Searching for answers, looking around to recognize what you don't know, and constantly learning about more … Continue reading Curiosity and Asking Questions

Setting an Agenda, and Killing “Being Busy”

In his book, The Coaching Habit, Michael Bungay Stanier talks about being busy, and how we sometimes use business as a way to show that we are important, hardworking, and have lots of meaningful things we are tasked with. He argues that being busy is really just a form of laziness stemming from a failure … Continue reading Setting an Agenda, and Killing “Being Busy”

Getting Team Members to Take Action

I don't find myself in a lot of direct coaching situations today, but nevertheless, Michael Bungay Stanier's book, The Coaching Habit, has been helpful for understanding coaching relationships and knowing how to be truly effective not just as a coach, but also as someone receiving coaching. One recommendation that Bungay Stanier has in his book … Continue reading Getting Team Members to Take Action