Coaching is About Curiosity

One of the final paragraphs from Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit  reads, "But the real secret sauce here is building a habit of curiosity. The change of behavior that's going to serve you most powerfully is simply this: a little less advice, a little more curiosity. Find your own questions, find your own voice. … Continue reading Coaching is About Curiosity

Getting Team Members to Take Action

I don't find myself in a lot of direct coaching situations today, but nevertheless, Michael Bungay Stanier's book, The Coaching Habit, has been helpful for understanding coaching relationships and knowing how to be truly effective not just as a coach, but also as someone receiving coaching. One recommendation that Bungay Stanier has in his book … Continue reading Getting Team Members to Take Action

Asking Others What They Really Want

The Coaching Habit is Michael Bungay Stanier's book about how to become a more effective coach and help the people you work with, manage, or coach to become the best version of themselves possible. His book is full of both theory and practical applications, looking at psychology and building on his own coaching experiences and experiments. … Continue reading Asking Others What They Really Want

More Developmental Conversations

Michael Bungay Stanier encourages coaches to strive toward having more meaningful discussions with people, especially when they are in designated coaching situations. In one-on-one meetings, in general workplace conversations, and when chatting with friends and family, leaders can make the most of their conversation by being aware of how they speak and by using techniques … Continue reading More Developmental Conversations

A Great Start to a Coaching Conversation

The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier is not just a book with a few good theories about coaching. Bungay Stanier includes a lot of specific words, phrases, and conversation examples to help you see concrete ways to improve your coaching. One example that Bungay Stanier includes is a quick way to get a coaching conversation … Continue reading A Great Start to a Coaching Conversation

Behaviors and Ways of Working – The Keys to Unlocking Growth

I am not currently in a leadership or management position with the company I work for, but I still took away a great deal from Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit. I have always had a bit of a coaching mindset and the book taught me a lot about how to be a better … Continue reading Behaviors and Ways of Working – The Keys to Unlocking Growth

Answers Versus Questions

I read Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit about a year ago, but I still struggle to adapt his main point into my daily life. What Bungay Stanier recommends is that we ask more questions in conversations, because questions get the other person thinking in a way that develops their thoughts more thoroughly. We like … Continue reading Answers Versus Questions