Praising Effort

In the book 59 Seconds by Richard Wiseman, the author looks into the role that motivation and positive reinforcement play on children and their development. One area that Wiseman focuses on is academic performance and praise. ┬áHe reviews the work by Claudia Mueller and Carol Dweck and sums up their findings with the following quote, … Continue reading Praising Effort

Staying Humble Out of the Spotlight

"I write this not for the many, but for you; each of us is enough of an audience for the other." Seneca wrote in one of his letters captured in the book Letters From a Stoic. This quote was at the heart of yesterday's post, but it is only one part of a larger post … Continue reading Staying Humble Out of the Spotlight

Make an Investment in Yourself

In his book Ego is the Enemy, author Ryan Holiday encourages us to push back against the idea of fake it 'til you make it, something that is said from time to time by those trying to become successful and trying to prove their value and skill. Fake it 'till you make it, Holiday argues, … Continue reading Make an Investment in Yourself

Talking, Taking Action, Working Hard, Being Afraid

I remember listening to a podcast a while back and learning about a study that examined what happened with children's performance on tests when they received praise. After being given a test, a group of students were praised for their hard work in studying and preparing for the test and told that they did well … Continue reading Talking, Taking Action, Working Hard, Being Afraid

Talking, Taking Action, Working Hard, and Being Afraid

I remember listening to a podcast a while back and learning about a study that examined what happened with children's performance on tests when they received praise. After being given a test, a group of students were praised for their hard work in studying and preparing for the test and told that they did well … Continue reading Talking, Taking Action, Working Hard, and Being Afraid

The Seed of Greatness

How do we do something great? What do we need to do in order to achieve a high level success that everyone agrees to be truly outstanding? I don't necessarily ask myself these direct questions, but every day of my life I feel as though I am asking and trying to answer these questions. When … Continue reading The Seed of Greatness

It Comes Down to Purpose

John Boyd was a brilliant military officer, strategist, and consultant who helped shape a generation of military leaders. Boyd is the focus of one chapter in Ryan Holiday's book, Ego is the Enemy, titled, "To Be or To Do?" Boyd, Holiday explains, was a terrific air force pilot and a very insightful and influential mind … Continue reading It Comes Down to Purpose

The Struggle of Great Work

Ryan Holiday's book Ego is the Enemy helped me really understand the benefits of getting away from habits, thoughts, and behaviors that serve to boost the ego. His writing has helped me better think through my desires and the actions I take to reach those desires. Focusing on my ego and understanding the destructive nature … Continue reading The Struggle of Great Work