Sex, Society, & Religion

An argument I found very persuasive in The Elephant in the Brain┬áby Kevin Simler and Robin Hanson is that religions establish norms for sexual behavior in an attempt to help create social cohesion partly through systems of shared sexual family beliefs and values that build into family beliefs and values. The norms around sex ensure … Continue reading Sex, Society, & Religion

Reputation

How do norms shape our behaviors? As social animals we rely on a good reputation which helps us gain allies, build coalitions, and have close bonds between family and friends. A good reputation increases trust, convinces others that they should invest in our friendship, and tells the social group give us a hand every now … Continue reading Reputation

Language, Rules, Punishment

I studied Spanish during my undergraduate degree and I frequently listen to John McWhorter's podcast Lexicon Valley. I enjoy thinking about language and I'm sometimes fascinated by the fact that sounds produced by one person can impact so much about the world. The language we have developed can shape so much of how we act … Continue reading Language, Rules, Punishment

Deceiving Ourselves

Kevin Simler and Robin Hanson write about evolutionary psychology of the brain in their book The Elephant in the Brain to explain why it is that we have hidden motives and why those hidden motives can be so hard to identify. The authors write (brackets mine, italics in original), "The human brain, according to this … Continue reading Deceiving Ourselves

Avoid Ascribing Guilt or Menace

I have been engaged with Stoicism for several years now and even though I work on recognizing my thoughts and reactions to the world around me, I am still frequently surprised by how quickly I can assume bad intent in another person and view others as terrible people when they do something I don't like. … Continue reading Avoid Ascribing Guilt or Menace