Sharing what I have learned from what I have read: A blog by Joe Abittan
I don't think about it as much any more, but several years ago I was nearly obsessed with the idea of intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation. I ran cross country in high school and at the time I was very motivated by winning medals, winning a state championship, and impressing my friends and family. After graduating … Continue reading External Versus Internal Goals
How good are you at introspection? How much do you know about yourself and how much do other people know about you that you don't actually know? I try to ask myself these types of questions and reflect on how much I don't actually recognize or know about myself, but it is really difficult. I … Continue reading Outsiders Within Our Own Minds
I spend a lot of time thinking about what is important in my life, what I want to work toward, and why I want to work toward those things. Its not always an easy and enjoyable task, and I find that if I get away from it for a little while, unimportant things slip back … Continue reading Undertaking Your Pursuit
Yesterday I wrote about how easy it can be to solve the wrong problem. When we go to meetings, chat with someone during a lunch break, or are working in a group on a project, it can become very easy to start complaining about whatever thing happens to be annoying us at that moment. Whatever … Continue reading Whats the Real Challenge
Michael Bungay Stanier starts one of the chapters in his book The Coaching Habit with a quote from Jonas Salk, “What people think of as the moment of discovery is really the discovery of the question.” This quote is fitting because Bungay Stanier’s premise in The Coaching Habit is that we too often focus on giving … Continue reading Asking More Questions
In his book The Coaching Habit, Michael Bungay Stanier helps us see what makes a good coach. The key lesson that he shares with us is that a good coach does more listening than talking, something that seems to cut against our ideas of coaching in the United States. Good coaches don’t hog all of the … Continue reading Asking Questions While Coaching