Continuing his focus on confidence in the book Act Accordingly, Colin Wright states, “A Confident person doesn’t fear having been wrong: she’s just happy to be more right now than she was before.” This quote shows one of Wright’s core principles expressed in his books Act Accordingly and Considerations. He is continually focusing on adopting as many new perspectives as possible, and learning from new situations and discussions. What his quote here is saying is that those who can be adaptive become more confident because they are not forced into belief systems at the expense of learning and growing.
I really enjoy focusing on perspectives because we each have a unique view of the world around us based on the information we take in, our backgrounds, ambitions, expectations, and other often hidden factors. With so many forces impacting us and changing who we are, it is not surprising that we can all interpret an event, idea, or feeling differently. What Wright argues is that we should seek out as many varying perspectives as possible so that we can understand others and begin to see things from multiple perspectives. When we focus on finding various perspectives we avoid believing that there is one correct answer and we become less judgmental of others.
Wright’s quote above speaks to me about the discussions we may have on a daily basis related to heafty topics such as politics or religion. In these two areas in particular people tend to become very entrenched and unchanging in their ideas. This limits them to a single perspective for which they seek out confirmation and agreement rather than differing perspectives and challenges. A person without confidence will hide behind their idea and find excuses for why other perspectives are wrong. More confident people will allow their idea to change because they understand that as they learn more and take in more information, their perspective will shift, and they will begin to see things with a better clarity. Adopting a single mindset and ideology and not allowing it to change means that you are shutting out other perspectives and limiting your growth. Opening up your ideology will allow you to connect with others and see the world in a better light.